The biggest mistake that a man can make with women is to chase them.
Not only does it show weakness, but it’s also a huge waste of time.
In fact, most men waste countless hours every day chasing after little Susy who works in the office cubicle next to them.
They think that if they stick around long enough they will eventually get into her little pink panties.
Show Me The Money
I’ve got news for you friend, little Susy would respect you a whole lot more if you got your head OUT of her ASS and put it into the game of making MONEY.
You see, women don’t love men for who or what they are. They love a man for what he can provide…ahem… money and security.
But that is only part of the attraction equation.
There are still other important concepts that you must understand if you want to attract beautiful women into your life.
Feeling A Little Confused?
I know I used to be.
Every time I tried to get close to a girl that I liked by being extra nice, it got me nowhere.
Eventually, I learned the truth about what really attracts women, but that knowledge only came after I had my heart broken several times.
If you’re still a young buck and you have stumbled across this post, congratulations! By the end of it, you will have absolutely no competition when it comes to getting women that you desire.
For all the older readers out there, don’t worry, the rules of attraction don’t change because of age.
In fact, all the rules of attraction that are going to be discussed in this post apply to all women regardless of age, color, race, or ethnicity.
Women Are Like Cats
The first and most important thing you must understand about women is that they are like cats.
Cats make you work for their affection and never come to you when you act needy or get in their face.
In fact, if you chase a cat after it doesn’t come to you on command, it will simply run away and hide.
Chasing after cats is a fools game and a waste of time.
However, if you ignore the cat and go about your business like it doesn’t exist, something funny happens… it comes over to you, rubs up against you, and begins purring affectionately.
You see, beautiful women don’t want to be treated with special attention.
SO STOP PUTTING THEM UP ON A FUCKING PEDASTEL.
They’re already used to receiving this type of treatment from the weak men of the world.
Instead of following suit and making the same dumb mistake, do yourself a favor and…
Treat All Women The Same
For some reason, most men turn into dopey little boys when they meet a woman that they are attracted to.
Rather than turning into a nice dopey little boy in the presence of a pretty lady, treat her just like you would treat anyone else.
Love and attraction is a playful game of friendly banter and teasing, kinda like how things were when you were in elementary school.
This is why women prefer sleeping with assholes over nice guys. Assholes put them in their place and make them feel inferior.
Nice guys do nothing but inflate the ego of a woman by being nice until she makes up her mind that she is too good for him.
A Quick Story
The first time that I discovered that the whole “nice guy” act was a bad idea was shortly after I turned 20.
I had a job and while at this particular job, I worked alongside a beautiful 24-year-old girl with a cute face and an amazing rack.
All the guys at work were constantly kissing her ass and being overly nice to her 24/7 which I could tell was making her really uncomfortable.
After realizing this, I decided to take a totally different approach.
Instead of being Mr. nice guy like all the other losers, I was always a dick, constantly making jokes and bantering with her back and forth all while making her laugh constantly.
She would ask me to do random things for her in order to test my strength and see if I would fold like all the other pussified men in her life, but I saw right through it.
I never gave in and always replied with a smart ass comment… and god damn, it drove her crazy.
So crazy that less than 1 month after talking to this seemingly untouchable girl, we were dating and having sex regularly.
As a result, every guy at work became jealous and hated me. Of course, I thought it was hilarious.
While they were busy being nice guys, I was squeezing and sucking on her perfect tits every night.
Don’t Get It Twisted
I’m not advocating being a total dickhead to women that you like (most so-called pickup artists preach this sort of behavior) but, I am saying that you should joke around with them and keep all of the early interactions light-hearted.
Trying too hard to be a charming dickhead will always blow up in your face if you are still inexperienced, so always tread lightly in the beginning.
Believe it or not, going up to a girl you like and calling her a “dumbass bitch” with the hope that she will get turned on and drop her panties for you right away isn’t going to work.
Men Have It Easy… So Don’t Complicate Things
Even though most movies and TV shows portray love stories a certain way (man meets a woman, falls in love with her instantly, and then proceeds to chase her until she gives in) this is NOT how real life works.
As a man, we actually have it easy. Our job is to simply show up, be charming, and be ourselves.
If a woman doesn’t find you attractive it doesn’t matter. Just move on and keep living life and other opportunities will show up.
Masculine energy is about being strong, unemotional, and indifferent while feminine energy is about being unsure, emotional, and attached.
Most people in today’s politically correct society will read that statement and flip out. That’s okay… go right ahead. It doesn’t make it any less true.
That fact above is the reason why men and women are perfect for each other. Women were designed by nature to be our perfect counterpart.
Now, sometimes (actually, most of the time) men forget that they are men and start emitting feminine energy.
Men today are becoming increasingly sensitive, unsure of themselves, and attached to outcomes that they have no control over.
Look, if you do everything you can as a man (show up, be charming, and be yourself) and get rejected by a lady, just move on.
Women are abundant on this Earth and chances are high that your beautiful dream girl is out there, waiting for you to show up in her life.
Don’t waste your time with a woman who displays a low-interest level towards you.
Save your precious time for women that show high levels of interest and make everything easy.
How Women Communicate High-Interest Levels
Most men go wrong from the start because, for some odd reason, we always end up falling for women that simply aren’t interested in us.
As we discussed before, this usually ends up happening because you watched way too many movies.
Hollywood movies have taught us that when a man meets a woman he likes, he can eventually get her to be his by relentlessly chasing her and doing stalkerish things like throwing stones at her bedroom window at 2AM.
Please do yourself a favor and refrain from doing the creepy stalker shit that you see in movies.
That doesn’t work! That’s not real life!
Instead, you need to learn what signs to look for in a woman that instantly reveal her attraction level.
Here they are…
1) She smiles at you and gets excited when you interact with her
Women are emotional creatures and tend to wear their heart on their sleeve. If they are feeling excited and happy to be in your presence, it will be easily noticeable. They will be smiling, laughing at everything you say, and extremely energetic.
You will be able to feel the electricity in the air once you get more comfortable with women and attuned to their feelings over time.
2) She asks you personal questions
Women absolutely love to talk about themselves and if they feel comfortable in your presence, they will have no problem going on for hours and hours about anything and everything under the sun.
However, if she all of a sudden switches the topic of the conversation to you, this is a really good sign. BUT, you need to be careful not to spill your guts right away.
Women like men that are mysterious and challenging. Don’t tell her everything she wants to know about you too soon. Be polite, answer some of her questions, then turn the conversation back over to her.
You must make her work for your trust and affection because women like challenges. This will also cause her to wonder about you more when you aren’t together which will increase the sexual tension and speed up the process of seduction.
3) She touches and compliments you
When a woman gets touchy and tells you things like “you have amazing eyes” it is her way of saying that she wants to have sex with you at some point in the near future.
Most guys don’t know how to handle this type of behavior from a woman and lose their composure. This ends up turning a woman off and ruins any chance of you ending up naked together.
Remember, women are like cats. You must always keep your cool around them if you want them to submit to you.
4) She makes it easy for you to ask her out
When a woman is really into you, she will make it easy for you to make a move.
For example, some women will casually say that they really want to try a new restaurant or go somewhere really bad but still haven’t managed to get there. This is an open invitation for you to set a definite date with her on the spot.
Other women who are more confident will not wait for you to ask them out and instead, they will ask you out on a date.
If this happens, take advantage of it knowing that you are well on your way to getting laid. Unless you fuck it up by doing and saying dumb shit.
When a woman really likes you, she will open doors for you and all you have to do is walk through them.
Let Her Chase You
After you have done your job (show up, be charming, be yourself) for 3-4 fun-filled dates, a woman will start to chase after you relentlessly.
She will be texting you good morning and trying to talk to you all day every day. When this starts happening, you know you have her hooked. From this point on, the only way she will ever leave your life is if you chase her out of it by becoming needy and emitting feminine energy.
When she starts blowing up your phone, remain composed and DO NOT reciprocate by always being at her beckoned call.
If you are a successful man, you will be busy working on businesses that will make you lots of money.
Successful men don’t waste time chit-chatting on the phone all day with little miss thing.
Successful men prefer talking with their lady in person, where they can create another opportunity for sex to happen.
But but but;
Don’t ignore her altogether!
Again, be polite and answer some of her calls or texts, talk for a couple minutes, then let her know you are busy and get off the phone.
Keep your interactions on the phone to a minimum until you are in a committed relationship with her if that’s your end goal.
Again, this will cause her to think about you more and drive her attraction level for you through the roof.
Keep It Simple
Life is so much better when you simplify things and meeting and dating women is no different.
Less is more.
Concentrate on being successful and you will never have any shortage of beautiful women in your life begging you to spend time with them.
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